Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via swiftbeat)

(Source: thelovewhisperer)

You don’t know how deeply you are intertwined with someone until you try to walk away from them.
m.l. - splitterherzen (via perfect)


Cleaning my room I found pictures of him. I kept looking at them until I stumbled upon a collage I made of pictures of us. The sign above the pictures said: “If I had only one friend, I’d want it to be you” 

I am not sure how I am feeling at the moment, but losing him might be the worst thing I had ever gone through. Losing a person that was your best friend for so long before becoming more. A year and a half has passed and I am still not okay. 

Do you ever write a really long message and about halfway through you’re like “you know what, they don’t even care” and delete it
(via icanrelateto)


We change, We grow up,

We fuck up, We love,

We hurt,

We’re teenagers.

We’re still learning.

When you want them, they don’t want you. When they want you, you don’t want them. When you both want each other, something messes it up.
(via icanrelateto)